Does seeing someone fighting bring up family feuds in your mind and does the noise bother you? Learn ways to deal with this

It is completely normal for families to experience conflict and disagreement. Arguments can occur due to different opinions and tensions between different family members.

 

It is quite normal for families to experience conflict and disagreement. Every family has fights and arguments. This is because different family members may have different opinions on many things. This can lead to tension and arguments. However, in some homes, a lot of fighting and shouting can indicate many issues. In fact, when poor communication, unresolved conflicts or emotional problems start increasing among the family, it can lead to fights in the house. 

Does your mind get disturbed after seeing repeated fights?

Bad communication among family members, a strange gap , emotional problems, lack of proper communication can cause a lot of disturbance in the mind. If you are also facing such problems in your family, then first of all you should sit and talk with your family members. Because only by talking can we solve any problem among ourselves. 

Parents are always respected

I belong to the Indian society which admires the good deeds and sacrifices done by parents for their children. Parents are always respected. So doing or saying anything against them is considered bad or you are considered a person with low moral values. Having said that, I want to confess that I hate my parents. I have nothing but hatred for them in my heart. They are so toxic that the life inside you will get intoxicated and die. I have lost all motivation and will to do anything in life. Fighting not only affects the people fighting but also affects the people around them.

There may be many reasons for frequent family fights, such as lack of communication, financial stress, or personal differences, but to resolve these problems it is important to talk with an open mind, listen and understand each other, and work together to find solutions.

First of all, we need to understand why there are fights in the family? Actually, a family in which there is lack of communication, financial constraints, differences among the family members, not talking openly, not listening to each other at all and not being ready to understand can give rise to many problems. 

Due to frequent fights in the family

Lack of communication: When family members do not talk openly with each other, do not listen to each other and do not express themselves properly, then there is a lack of communication between them. Due to which there are frequent fights in the family. Family members not talking effectively, not listening to each other, or not expressing themselves properly. 

Money crunch: There can be arguments and fights in the family over several issues including shortage of money at home, shortage of money, excessive expenditure, job insecurity, financial problems, etc. 

Personal differences: Differences in opinions, values and attitudes can also lead to conflicts and fights within the family. Misunderstandings or wrong expectations from each other can also lead to fights among family members. 

Lack of time: Family members do not have enough time to spend with each other, which weakens relationships and leads to fights even over small matters. 

How to deal with fights at home

Whenever you see that things are getting worse at home, instead of fighting, talk to each other. Listen to each other carefully. And try to understand. 

 

Try to resolve the fight instead of complicating it. This will keep your relationship with each other good and flexible. 

If you get time after work, spend time with your family. So that the relationship remains strong. And you can understand each other better. 

If fights in the family are increasing day by day, then try to have special conversations among each other in the family. 

 

It takes time for changes to happen in the family; in such a situation, maintain patience and calm. 

Be open about it: Encourage open and honest communication among family members so they can express their feelings and thoughts.

Disclaimer: Some of the information given in the news is based on media reports. Before implementing any suggestion, please consult the concerned expert.